For the Girls:
Boys are not fun. A man is not your girlfriend-with-benefits.
No, because, man is much, much more than that.
Man is to die. Man is war. Man is premature, inefficient, foolish, and selfishly ambitious. Man is a drag. Man sucks. Man loses again and again, ad nauseum. Our society glosses over his mortality like a disease.
Man's antics and behavior, naturally, are going to drag you through hell. A good man understands this, and he will commit himself to you only with this clarity.
It is THROUGH Man's consciousness of YOU, his devouted love of you -- a Woman! (and all that he believes you to be) -- that you will experience rebounding joy, fun, maturity, efficiency, intelligence, selflessness...and everything else that you desire. These things will come through his ability to transmute all the shit into rainbows and butterflies, etc.
A good Man can do this because he is accustomed to doing so with his own.
You are going to challenge your Man to the nth degree. You are going to give him shit he is unaccustomed to transmuting, your shit! And you are going to insist that he do it, again and again, to prove he is worthy of your love. This is your predisposition; this is how you want to know it is true.
It is truly an act of courage to accept additional karma. Folly upon those who do so carelessly.
If a Man loves his notion of self more than he loves you, then he will basically come to hate you for showing him the truth of his self-lie. But if his love is greater than that, then you will see him do the back-breaking work of accepting what you show him he is. Through this process, all I can offer you is the patience of Mary.
It is THEREFORE your responsibilities ladies, if you truly love your men, to handle what is yours, and give him only what is his. Otherwise you will break him.
Each person is built perfectly to handle themselves. No more, no less. To handle another can be done successfully only in the name of Love. It really is that simple.
No, because, man is much, much more than that.
Man is to die. Man is war. Man is premature, inefficient, foolish, and selfishly ambitious. Man is a drag. Man sucks. Man loses again and again, ad nauseum. Our society glosses over his mortality like a disease.
Man's antics and behavior, naturally, are going to drag you through hell. A good man understands this, and he will commit himself to you only with this clarity.
It is THROUGH Man's consciousness of YOU, his devouted love of you -- a Woman! (and all that he believes you to be) -- that you will experience rebounding joy, fun, maturity, efficiency, intelligence, selflessness...and everything else that you desire. These things will come through his ability to transmute all the shit into rainbows and butterflies, etc.
A good Man can do this because he is accustomed to doing so with his own.
You are going to challenge your Man to the nth degree. You are going to give him shit he is unaccustomed to transmuting, your shit! And you are going to insist that he do it, again and again, to prove he is worthy of your love. This is your predisposition; this is how you want to know it is true.
It is truly an act of courage to accept additional karma. Folly upon those who do so carelessly.
If a Man loves his notion of self more than he loves you, then he will basically come to hate you for showing him the truth of his self-lie. But if his love is greater than that, then you will see him do the back-breaking work of accepting what you show him he is. Through this process, all I can offer you is the patience of Mary.
It is THEREFORE your responsibilities ladies, if you truly love your men, to handle what is yours, and give him only what is his. Otherwise you will break him.
Each person is built perfectly to handle themselves. No more, no less. To handle another can be done successfully only in the name of Love. It really is that simple.
posted by Just Greg at Thursday, December 29, 2005
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